When and How to Talk to Your Child About Hypospadias Surgery

Hypospadias is a common congenital condition in boys where the urinary opening (urethral opening) is located on the underside of the penis instead of the tip. Hypospadias surgery is usually performed in early childhood, ideally before the age of five.

After successful hypospadias repair, the penis appears similar to a circumcised penis with urinary opening on tip and no curvature. The child will be able to pass urine in a single straight stream from the tip of the penis without pain or difficulty.

Because the surgery is performed very early in life, many children do not remember the condition or the procedure. As a result, many parents wonder:

Should we tell our child about his hypospadias surgery?

The answer is yes—open communication is important for your child’s long-term emotional and medical well-being.

Why parents have difficulty in talking to their son about hypospadias?

Many parents struggle with discussing hypospadias with their child due to social and emotional concerns such as

1. Cultural Taboo Around Genital Health

In many families, conversations about genitals or sexual health are considered uncomfortable or inappropriate. Parents who grew up in such environments may find it difficult to discuss these topics openly.

2. Fear of disclosure leading to social judgement and stigma

Parents often hesitate to disclose such conditions to their child due to fear that the child might share it with others, leading to social judgment. They may worry about teasing, stigma, or misunderstandings from peers, relatives, or the wider community. Concerns about how
the information could affect the child’s social relationships, self-esteem, and even future aspects like marriage or fertility can make parents cautious. As a result, some choose to delay or limit discussions, hoping to protect the child from potential negative reactions.

3. Concern About the Child’s Emotional Reaction

Some parents fear that their child may feel embarrassed, feel different from others, or become emotionally distressed if he learns about his hypospadias condition. Although these concerns are understandable, keeping the condition completely hidden may lead to problems later in life.

Why It Is Important to Tell Your Child About Hypospadias

1. Prevents Trust Issues

Children may eventually discover their medical history through records, online searches, or medical consultations. Learning about hypospadias surgery later in life from another source may make them feel betrayed or confused. Hence open communication is necessary to build trust and prevent unnecessary anxiety.

2. Reduces Body Image Concerns

As boys grow into adolescence, they naturally become more aware of their bodies. If they notice that their penis looks slightly different without understanding the reason, it may lead to unnecessary insecurity.

3. Prevents Anxiety During Puberty

Puberty brings many physical and emotional changes. Understanding their medical history helps adolescents feel confident and reduces anxiety about their bodies.

4. Helps With Healthy Relationships in Adulthood

Men who are unaware of their hypospadias repair history may feel worried or embarrassed about their appearance during intimate relationships. Knowing the truth early helps build confidence and reduces fear of judgment.

5. Seek help if they have medical issues

While with current hypospadias surgery techniques, the long-term results are very good, some of the children may develop issues in adulthood related to hypospadias or surgery done in childhood. These issues may include stricture, diverticulum, recurrent chordee or rarely urinary infections. Hence, it is important that the parents handover the medical records and tell their child about surgery so that they can seek proper help should anything happen.

6. Future urological interventions

Even in men without prior hypospadias, some of them develop kidney stones or prostate issues in late adulthood. At time of intervention, there is often cystoscopy done via urethra. Hence, it is important for them to know that they have a reconstructed urethra and share the same surgery record with their treating adult urologist.

What Is the Right Age to Talk About Hypospadias?

The best time to discuss about hypospadias with your child is during adolescence. At this stage, teenagers are mature enough to understand medical information and can process the explain logically.

Parents can explain that:
 He was born with a small difference in the position of the urinary opening.
 A hypospadias surgery was performed in childhood to correct it.

The condition has been successfully treated. It will not affect his normal life, urination, or future relationships. Having this conversation in a calm and supportive manner helps the child feel reassured and informed.

Why Medical Records of Hypospadias Surgery Are Important

When your child becomes an adult, it is important to provide him with all documents related to his hypospadias repair surgery. These records can help doctors if he ever needs medical evaluation later in life. Although most boys who undergo hypospadias surgery in childhood live completely normal lives, some rare complications can occur in adulthood, including:

1. Urethral Stricture: The reconstructed urethra may become narrow over time, affecting urine flow.
2. Urethral Diverticulum: The reconstructed urethra may become slightly dilated or relaxed.
3. Residual Chordee: A mild curvature of the penis that was not fully corrected in childhood may become more noticeable in adulthood.

Having the surgical history and medical records helps doctors provide appropriate treatment if any issue arises.

Who Should Explain about Hypospadias to the Child?

The best approach is for parents to have the conversation along with the hypospadias surgeon.

Together, they can reassure the child that:
 The condition was corrected successfully.
 He can lead a completely normal life.
 If he has questions or concerns, he can discuss them privately with the doctor.

We also recommend a follow-up consultation around 18 years of age so that the young adult fully understands his medical history and can address any concerns.

Final Thoughts

Talking to your child about hypospadias and hypospadias surgery may feel uncomfortable at first, but open and honest communication is important. When parents discuss the condition At the right age, it helps build trust, confidence, and a healthy body image. Providing accurate information ensures that your child grows into adulthood feeling reassured, informed, and comfortable with his medical history.

About hypospadias foundation

Hypospadias Foundation, located at MITR Hospital in Kharghar, Navi Mumbai in the state of Maharashtra, India is a centre specialized for the treatment of children and adults with hypospadias. Our expertise in hypospadias makes us one of the best centres for hypospadias repair in the world. We treat children from more than 30 countries in the world and from all over India. Our dedication in this field has helped us achieve excellent outcomes.

Dr A K Singal is an expert and top hypospadias surgeon in India. He is a gifted surgeon and his expertise in this area has helped us achieve excellent outcomes in primary and failed hypospadias in children as well as adults. Dr Ashwitha Shenoy is an expert hypospadias surgeon with a special interest in hypospadias and pediatric urology. Both Dr Singal and Dr Shenoy work together to give best results for hypospadias surgery in India for both children and adults.

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    Is there an age limit for hypospadias repair surgery?

    Hypospadias is a congenital condition in which the urinary opening (meatus) is located on the underside of the penis instead of at the tip. Hypospadias repair surgery is a well-established and successful procedure that can be performed in infants, children, adolescents, and adults. However, choosing the best age for hypospadias repair plays an important role in healing, recovery, and long-term outcomes.

    What Is the Best Age for Hypospadias Surgery?

    Most expert hypospadias surgeons recommend performing surgery between 6 and 18 months of age. Surgery before 3 years of age is considered ideal, and if someone misses this period, surgery before 8 years of age is still strongly recommended if early repair was not possible.

    Hypospadias Surgery in Infants (6–18 Months)

    The ideal age for hypospadias surgery is between 6 and 18 months. At this age:

    • Penile tissues are soft, elastic, and heal faster
    • Scarring is minimal due to high tissue regeneration
    • Infants are unaware of their genitalia and body image
    • There is no psychological impact or memory of surgery

    Early hypospadias repair also allows normal toilet training and smooth bladder control development. Post-operative care is easier in infants, as diaper changes simplify wound care and recovery is less stressful for parents.

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    Hypospadias Surgery Before 3 Years of Age

    If surgery cannot be done in infancy, completing hypospadias repair before 3 years of age still provides excellent results. Children recover well, healing is fast, and long-term functional and cosmetic outcomes remain very good.

    Hypospadias Surgery in Older Children

    Hypospadias surgery in older children is safe and effective, though recovery can be more challenging.

    Older children:

    • Are more aware of their genitalia and may feel shy or anxious
    • Experience more fear and perceived pain after surgery
    • May find dressing changes difficult
    • Sometimes hold urine after catheter removal due to fear of pain

    Despite these challenges, healing and success rates remain high when surgery is performed by an experienced hypospadias surgeon.

    Hypospadias Surgery in Teenagers

    Teenage boys with untreated or failed hypospadias often feel embarrassed and reluctant to undergo surgery. In cases of hypospadias with chordee (penile curvature), we recommend delaying surgery until penile growth is complete. Avoiding surgery during active growth may prevent interference with natural penile development

    Hypospadias Surgery in Adults

    Hypospadias repair in adults is possible and can be highly successful. However, recovery is slower compared to children because:

    • Adult penile skin is thicker and less elastic
    • Healing takes longer
    • Pubic hair can affect wound care
    • Night-time erections may stress sutures and increase complication risk
    • Infection issues are higher
    • Urethral and extra safety supra-pubic catheter are also needed.

    Even in adulthood, good outcomes are achievable in expert hands. Adult hypospadias surgery success rates at Hypospadias Foundation India are over 95%, which are best in the world.

    Is There an Age Limit for Hypospadias Surgery?

    There is no upper age limit for hypospadias surgery. The success of repair depends more on the experience of the hypospadias surgeon than the age of the patient. With proper evaluation and surgical expertise, excellent results can be achieved even in adulthood.

    Importance of Choosing an Expert Hypospadias Surgeon

    Before planning hypospadias surgery, it is essential to consult a specialist hypospadias surgeon. An experienced surgeon will:

    • Carefully examine the child or adult
    • Assess severity, chordee, and previous surgeries
    • Recommend the best timing and surgical technique

    At Hypospadias Foundation, children and adults from over 30 countries undergo hypospadias repair. The oldest successfully treated patient was a 50-year-old man with failed hypospadias repair and urethral stricture, operated without complications. This highlights the importance of choosing a specialized center for hypospadias treatment.

    Dr A K Singal is a highly experienced and internationally renowned hypospadias surgeon in India, widely regarded as one of the leading experts in hypospadias repair for both children and adults. He has dedicated his professional life to the treatment of complex and failed hypospadias cases, helping patients achieve excellent functional and cosmetic outcomes.

    With decades of focused experience in primary and redo hypospadias surgery, Dr Singal’s expertise has contributed to consistently high success rates in infants, older children, adolescents, and adults with hypospadias.

    Dr Ashwitha Shenoy is an expert pediatric surgeon with a special interest in pediatric urology and hypospadias surgery. Her training and experience in managing hypospadias in children ensure meticulous surgical care, age-appropriate planning, and excellent long-term outcomes.

    Together, Dr A K Singal and Dr Ashwitha Shenoy work as a dedicated team to provide comprehensive hypospadias treatment in India. Their combined expertise allows them to manage simple to complex hypospadias cases, including failed repairs and adult hypospadias, delivering some of the best outcomes for hypospadias surgery in India.

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    MITR hospital & Hypospadias Foundation, Kharghar, Navi Mumbai, India – Tue/Saturday 4:00pm-6:00pm, Call for appointments: +91-6262840940. Or email us at hypospadiasfoundationindia@gmail.com

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      Can there be urinary problems after hypospadias repair?

      Hypospadias is a condition in which the urinary opening is located on the underside of the penis. Surgery is required to correct this condition. Because the surgery involves reconstruction of the urethra there may be a change in urinary patterns or some urinary complications to occur during recovery. The body needs time to heal and adapt to the newly formed urethra.

      Urinary issues may occur while the catheter is in place or after catheter removal.

      Short-term recovery issues (with catheter in situ)

      Children may experience the following during the post-operative period while the urinary catheter is in place:

      1. Bladder spasms
      These may feel like sharp cramping pain in the lower abdomen or a sudden urge to urinate. Bladder spasms are commonly caused by irritation of the bladder lining from the urinary catheter. To reduce discomfort, anticholinergic medications are routinely prescribed after surgery, and the dose may be increased if symptoms persist.

      2. Leakage around the urinary catheter
      Some urine may leak from the tip of the penis around the catheter. This is usually normal if urine is draining well through the catheter and there are no signs of blockage.

      3. Blood in the urine
      A few drops of blood may occasionally be seen in the urine while the catheter is in place. This is generally expected in the early post-operative period and usually resolves on its own.

      4. Whitish material in urine: Sometimes there may be whitish flakes in otherwise clear urine. These oay be due to mucus, minerals or bladder lining cells. Doctor may ask to increase water intake. If the urine is clear, there is smell or pus, nothing needs to be done except increasing hydration.

      If urinary problems persist or appear months after hypospadias surgery, further evaluation may be required. Some children may develop symptoms after few months of hypospadias repair which can be poor urinary stream, urine leakage, painful urination, or difficulty emptying the bladder. These issues may indicate a late surgical complication of hypospadias repair.

      Common surgical complications after hypospadias repair

      1. Urethrocutaneous fistula
      A urethrocutaneous fistula or also known as urethral fistula is a small opening along the reconstructed urethra that allows urine to leak through the skin. Parents may notice urine coming out from two or more openings during urination. There are high chances that some fistula specially if they are away from head of penis and the new urethra is not tight – they may close by themselves. Hence, we observe the fistula for up to 6 months, as some may close spontaneously. If it does not close on its own, surgical correction may be required.

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      2. Meatal stenosis
      Meatal stenosis occurs when the new urinary opening at the tip of the penis becomes narrow due to scar tissue formation. Symptoms include a very thin urinary stream, straining during urination, or pain while passing urine. On examination, the meatus appears visibly narrow. The diagnosis can be confirmed by a video of stream and uroflowmetry. Sometimes a ultrasound may show incomplete bladder emptying. In the early post-operative period (within 1–2 months), meatal calibration may be helpful. If narrowing persists beyond 3 months, a meatotomy may be required.

      3. Urethral stricture
      In urethral stricture, the reconstructed urethra becomes narrowed along its length. The length of stricture may be really short or it can extend for a longer length. This can lead to difficulty passing urine, straining, frequent urination, poor stream, or recurrent urinary tract infections. Urethral strictures usually require repeat surgery to reconstruct or replace the urethra. Repeated dilatation is not recommended, as it does not provide lasting relief and may worsen the condition.

      4. Urethral diverticulum
      In some cases, a pouch (diverticulum) forms along the reconstructed urethra, causing it to bulge during urination. This can lead to urine collecting in the pouch, resulting in post-void dribbling or leakage after urination. Parents may notice a swelling on the underside of the penis while the child urinates. If the diverticulum is significant or causes symptoms, redo urethroplasty may be required.

      Management approach
      If a child is in the early recovery phase (first 2–3 weeks after surgery), symptoms may improve with anti-edema medications and urethral calibration. However, if urinary symptoms persist beyond 2–3 months, close monitoring and further surgical intervention may be necessary.

      About Hypospadias Foundation
      At Hypospadias Foundation, we treat children and adults from across India and around the world who present with urinary problems after hypospadias surgery. Each case is evaluated individually with appropriate investigations, and the final decision regarding the type of repair is made intra-operatively, taking all relevant factors into consideration.

      Dr A.K. Singal is considered the best hypospadias surgeon globally, not just in India, due to his high volume of successful complex cases and specialized focus in hypospadias. Dr. Singal has successfully treated thousands of children and adults with hypospadias, including severe, proximal, and redo cases that require advanced surgical expertise. What sets Dr. A. K. Singal apart is his deep understanding of post- hypospadias complications, such as fistula, meatal stenosis, urethral stricture, and diverticulum. Many patients who have undergone unsuccessful surgeries elsewhere seek his care for definitive correction. He emphasizes long-term outcomes, not just immediate surgical success, with careful follow-up and individualized planning.

      Dr. Ashwitha Shenoy is a dedicated pediatric urologist and an integral member of the clinical team at Hypospadias Foundation, where she specializes in the evaluation and management of children with hypospadias and related urogenital conditions. She is actively involved in the pre-operative assessment, surgical care, and long-term follow-up of children undergoing hypospadias repair. Contacting the Hypospadias Foundation:

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        What to avoid after hypospadias repair

        Hypospadias is a congenital defect with an abnormal urinary opening and is usually associated with downward bending of the penis which is called as chordee. Surgery is required to correct the hypospadias in which the urinary opening is brought to the tip of the penis, curvature is straightened, and skin is rearranged to give a circumcised appearance. Certain things are to be avoided after hypospadias surgery to avoid stress on the surgical site and ensure proper healing. Here are the things which are to be avoided after hypospadias surgery:

        1. Activity and bathing restrictions:

        Straddle toys and activities: Any activity which puts pressure in the penile area should be avoided after surgery for a period of 4 weeks. This includes riding bicycle, riding toy horse, see-saw, swings etc. Any activity that involves spreading the legs can apply pressure on the penile area.

        Sports: Any sport activity involving ball which can cause impact on the penile area should be avoided.

        Swimming: Swimming should be avoided for 6 weeks after hypospadias repair. Public or natural water sources (chlorinated pools) contain bacteria, chemicals and contaminants that can lead to serious wound infection because the surgical site is a fresh healing wound.

        Bathing: Avoid soaking the hypospadias dressing or wetting it till it is removed. Sponge bath is recommended till the dressing and catheter is present. Start bathing the child once your doctor has given the green signal. Bath is allowed once dressing and catheter is removed but soap application and rubbing the penile area should be avoided for 3 weeks after dressing removal.

        2. Hypospadias Wound and Dressing care:

        Dressing care: Dressing should be kept clean and avoid soiling of dressing with stool. If dressing gets dirty, it must be changed. If dressing is completely soiled with stool, then dressing is removed, betadine wash is given, and operated site is left open till catheter removal.

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        Pic 1: Clean dressing after hypospadias surgery

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        Pic 2: Soiled dressings in the post operative period after hypospadias surgery

        Catheter handling: A urinary tube is kept after hypospadias surgery to drain the urine. This tube should be handled carefully till removed. Pulling/ pushing of the tube should be avoided because it can cause stress on the newly reconstructed urethra. Also, the end of the tube which drains urine should be kept clean to avoid infection.

        Avoid constipation: Straining while passing stool after surgery can cause pressure on the operated site in turn putting stress on the stitches which may lead to giving away of the stitches causing dehiscence (opening of the operated site). Hence avoid constipation in the post-surgery period. If the child has constipation, pls inform the doctor so that a laxative can be prescribed at time of discharge.

        Operated site care: Once the dressing and catheter is removed, sitz bath is started. Sitz bath is soaking the operated area in lukewarm water. We advise parents to make their children sit in the bathtub for 3-5 minutes, three times daily after dressing and catheter removal. After cleaning the area, it should be dried. Avoid using cotton, wet wipes or rubbing the area. Only pat dry the area gently, alternatively you can put the diaper on wet penis. The diaper will absorb the water and the wound will become dry. Once dried ointment should be applied 2-3 times daily for 2-3 weeks depending on the healing. Presence of swelling, bruising and redness are normal after hypospadias surgery, and they gradually reduce after 2 weeks. The penis may look crooked and bent due to the swelling. There is no need to panic if the child is passing urine well.

        3. Do not stop or miss the medicines:

        Medicines are to be continued as per the doctor’s advice. Do not stop the antibiotics or other medicines prematurely in the presence of urinary tube because it can lead to infection.

        Always follow the specific post operative instructions given by your doctor. This instruction will vary slightly depending on the type of repair, post operative healing and the surgeons preference.

        At hypospadias foundation, we provide detailed post-surgery instructions, which are vital for a successful recovery. With an experience of more than 5000 hypospadias surgeries, we have protocols in place for management of post operative dressing and catheter care. Dr Singal and Dr Shenoy with their vast experience have developed good post operative care regimen which is easy for parents to follow. Good post-surgery care will cause good healing of the operated site and will decrease the risk of complications.

        Dr A.K. Singal is a highly respected and experienced Pediatric urologist and hypospadias specialist in India. He is widely recognized for his expertise in surgical treatment of hypospadias and considered as the best hypospadias surgeon in India and the world. He has developed innovative surgical techniques and treatment algorithms particularly for complex and failed cases, with strong emphasis on achieving successful functional and cosmetic outcomes.

        Dr Shenoy specializes in pediatric urology and hypospadias providing advanced surgical techniques for both primary and failed hypospadias repair in children and adults. Their combined experience and shared focus on a single, complex condition contribute to the foundation’s high success rate.

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